How To Be The Perfect Man In Bed...

We all want a great experience in the bedroom. And the truth is no one taught us the How! It seems we were left to our own devises to work it all out Thats so often not a good way to learn any subject let alone love, sex and intimacy. No wonder the divorce rate is so high and no wonder the amount of infidelity is sky high.

The first thing, if you really want to get this area of your life to be the best it can be, is to score yourself! Yes, whats the truth, how good are you in the bedroom? Use a scale from 0 - 10. If you score yourself 0 this means you believe you are totally crap in bed and if you score yourself 10, you believe you are masterful.

So what did you score?

Now heres the thing, being masterful in bed would start by understanding a womans, and in particular your womans, needs completely. Because being fantastic in bed is not all about you, its about a shared experience. Now it goes without saying all men want to be fantastic in bed, so here is a list of dos and donts to make it real simple to get you started.

The Dont Evers That Turn Women Off...

Dont try to have sex just because you need it.
Dont plead for or ask permission for sex.
Dont focus only on what you want.
Dont focus on your own orgasm.
Dont have it all over in 3 minutes.
Dont just make it a sexual experience.
Dont just turn over and go to sleep afterwards.
Dont just leave it all to her.
Dont visualise other women.
Dont only do it occasionally.

Do these and you woman will want more...

Do take control of time, place and environment.
Do be romantic, kind, and caring towards her.
Do be the leader, the real man she wants.
Do kiss her - a lot!
Do talk to her; tell her everything you love about her.
Do take your time.
Do focus on her all the time.
Do help her to relax and let go.
Do remain none sexual for best results.
Do synchronise your breathing.

Use the above lists like a check list, tick which of the Dont list you do and which on the Dos list you do, this will give you a real idea of the score you should be giving yourself.

Now utilise the Do list to start to change things around and get better results. And if you get expert in all of the ten Dos and forget all of the 10 Donts, it will be akin in bed to lighting the touch paper and standing back to watch the fireworks....

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