Most of the time when your girlfriend dumps you...it's not her, it's you. Guys, we're some of the dumbest oafs around when it comes to relationships, and we're always doing SOMETHING wrong. Girls may not be the easiest creatures to understand, and relationships with them can be a bit difficult to manage...but really if you can figure out your problems you can solve them.
So that's why I'm here, to list off the main stupid things we often do to anger our lovely, gentle little flowers and make them grow thorns. What's more, I'm going to tell you how to get through the stupid things we do, at least the ones I'm covering in this article. Here's a resource written for a man, by a man, to deal with women in relationships.
1) Number one thing that women hate about guys is that they just don't pay attention to their ladies. Sure she talks a lot, but it's USUALLY a good idea to listen to her. Even if she's talking about things that make absolutely no sense to you, you need to pay attention to her and act like you understand. If she doesn't get constant attention when she's speaking, somehow you don't love her.
Of course, this can be a bit contrary sometimes. You don't want to pay TOO MUCH attention to her, because that's considered "weird" or "scary." Achieving a balance is very difficult, as you have to pay enough attention to satisfy her without hanging on her every word and freaking her out. Since every girl's different, best idea is to simply listen to figure out exactly what she needs.
2) There's this term women use...it's called when a guy is being "emotionally supportive" of his woman. This term means absolutely nothing as far as I can figure...basically it's just a way of measuring how well a guy knows his girl. It's kinda related to List Item #1, but a bit expanded. Women are looking for when a guy pays enough attention to a girl so that he knows her almost as well as she knows herself.
There are a privileged few in the world of men who come by this talent naturally. I hate those scumbags, as I'm not one of them. If you're like me, it requires a lot of attention and devotion to really pick up on all the little clues they give you as to exactly what they want. Really, if you can perfect item number 1, you can probably do okay with this one.
3) Oh my God, do NOT let a woman catch you cheating on her. And by that I don't mean do it carefully, I mean don't do it. Women may take slightly less offense to other women cheating on their men, but a man who cheats is sin itself and must be brutally destroyed by any means necessary. Most of us guys know it's "bad" to cheat on a woman, but the majority of us may not know exactly what "cheating" is as a woman sees it.
You don't have to have sex with another woman to be "cheating." A lot of the time all it takes is a single look of appreciation at another woman's finer physical "assets" for your girlfriend to take offense. Even fantasies about pornstars or celebrities can be a no-no, it just depends on the girlfriend. Best and safest bet is to forget that other girls exist, and think like they're just other guys who look different.
4) For crying out loud, there is more trouble in the home than there has any right to be. When living with your girlfriend, simply accept the fact that you are GOING to help out around the house. You are fully capable of taking out the trash whether you want to or not, and if you know what's good for you, you'll just do what your girl says and hope she doesn't make you sleep on the couch.
So why am I telling you all this? What good does it do you if you've already broken up with her? Well, this has been a list of things you could do WRONG, right? Well, how about you stop doing these things? It'll make your future relationships better, and if you manage to get your ex girlfriend back, you'll have a lot better chance of making it work this time.
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