When your girlfriend up and breaks up with you, usually it's not for nothing. Women may sometimes SEEM a little random and unpredictable, but for the most part they do things for a reason. Chances are, that reason in this case is you...and I'm going to help you find out why and possibly how to fix it and get your life back on track.
Now, the list of problems women have with their men is a mile and a half long, but there are three specific things that usually pop up more often than not as the culprits for a failed relationship. If your girl wasn't one of those kind souls who lists your faults in lengthy detail, I'm going to list them off so you can see if maybe one of them rings a bell.
1) Chances are good you already know this and what a STUPID idea it is, but generally women don't take kindly to people cheating on them. It's just common sense, but I swear some of us were born without even that much common sense, because guys and girls continue to cheat on each other and destroy their relationships.
Honestly, if yours is a relationship broken apart by your own idiot adultery...I can't summon up a whole lot of sympathy for your situation. I suppose even REALLY STUPID things can be honest mistakes, but the forecast on getting back together ain't looking good for ya pal. When someone cheats on you, it really really hurts...relationships taken out this way are the hardest kinds to heal, because they end in the most emotionally damaging way. If there's any hope at all for a reunion, you need to be really gentle about it and NEVER CHEAT AGAIN.
2) Another thing guys can mess up on is not giving their woman the emotional support that she needs to be getting from her relationship with you. Women are built more on the side of their emotions, and if she doesn't feel as loved as she really desires to be, problems can brew.
At least healing this is easier than if you cheated...a lot easier. All women are a little different, but it shouldn't be too difficult to find the things that make her feel truly happy and cared for. Pay more attention to her, and really listen. If you're paying close enough attention, she'll tell you what she needs, if not with words.
3) This next one happens fairly often, and I have to say it makes me really sad that it does. Another pretty high-ranked killer of relationships is inactivity and lack of spontaneity that leads the relationship becoming rather boring. This is just so tragic to me, that two people who love each other can get bored and tired of being with one another because nothing exciting ever happens.
This is really the most tragic way for a relationship to die out. I mean, letting things get so stale with the one you love that love doesn't cut it anymore is just inexcusable. You can find things to do with her that are fun and spontaneous, I have faith in you. When the fun goes out of being with the one you love, it's just not right. Have FUN with her! Enjoy your love together, it's just wrong to let it get stale.
So there you have it, the three main things that generally cause couples to separate. This isn't at all everything that's ever gone wrong in a relationship, but it's a pretty good set of guidelines for probably about 80% of the problems relationship suffer through. I hope this has helped you out in determining what your problem may be and how to fix it. Good luck!
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